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Dreaming of your ex

Dreaming about an ex almost never means you want them back. It means something from that time — a way you felt, a part of yourself, a lesson you did not finish — is asking for attention. The person is the envelope; the message is inside.

Common meanings

  1. 01

    A quality you had in that relationship and have lost since: spontaneity, being desired, being young.

  2. 02

    An unfinished emotional transaction — something you never said, or never got to hear.

  3. 03

    A pattern repeating. If the ex arrives while you are dating someone new, ask what the two have in common.

The emotional angle

The feeling on waking is more informative than the plot. Tenderness, irritation, grief and relief each point somewhere different. Write the feeling before you write the dream.

What it may be asking of you

For love manifestation this is one of the most useful dreams there is: it shows you exactly what you are still carrying into the next relationship. Night six of the plan is built for it.

Tonight’s intention

I keep what I learned and release who taught it.

Questions people ask

No. Dreams are made from your own memory and feeling. What is thinking about you is a part of yourself from that time.

Dreamed of your ex last night?

A dictionary reads the word. The decoder reads your dream — where it was, who was there, what you felt.

Decode it

For self-reflection and entertainment. Not medical, psychological or predictive advice.